Prayers to Live By: The Lord’s Prayer

Our Christian history and tradition is just full of gold: stories, people, traditions and prayers that have inspired and nurtured peoples’ faith and helped them on their walk with Jesus through life. Here is one such prayer….


You might say this is THE PRAYER. This is the one that Jesus taught his followers when they asked him to teach them to pray. This prayer is a window into what is most concerning to Jesus.

In Jesus teaching he is not just concerned with what words to pray, but how to pray. In Matthew 6, Jesus sets out that prayer is to be done in secret. Our main reason for prayer is to connect with our Heavenly Father, therefore there best place to do it is in a secret place, where it is just you and God, one else. Now that might be a room or a chair, but also know that we can pray where ever we are and what ever we are doing in the secret of our thoughts and hearts.

The words of the prayer are still important though. In this prayer we see that Jesus invites us to first worship God and acknowledge His identity as our Holy Heavenly Father. He is our father who provides and protects us. He is heavenly in contrast to our earthly dads, and therefore greater in power, love and wisdom. And He is Holy, He is other and different, spotless and perfect. A God worthy of our praise.

The next words are profound, “Your Kingdom come, your will be done.” Jesus teaches us that our prayers are to be about what God wants and wills. We believe God is perfect in knowledge, wisdom and love, therefore who better to have their will be done? Our prayers are to be about seeking what God wants to see happen in our lives and the world. In this we have to acknowledge that there are times when our agenda is not the same as His.

Then the rest of the prayer sets out what God’s agenda is. We find that he wishes all people to have their bodily needs met. We find He wants people to be forgiven and reconciled to Him and one another. And we find that He wants people to be free from Evil and suffering. These three are not the full scope of His will, but they are the broad brush strokes. These three things therefore become a guide for our own prayers, as we discern what God might want and will for our lives: How would he like to meet your needs today? Who would He like you to reconcile with? Where is there suffering and temptation that need to be dealt with?

In conclusion this prayer sets out the Good News. We have a Good Father who loves us and wishes to look after us and take care of our needs. He seeks to establish His Kingdom, His will in the world and our lives. And that means acting in justice to see Evil and suffering dealt with. In means making away for reconciliation so deep loving relationships can form between humans who would otherwise try to harm one another. When we pray this prayer in our secret place, we are praying the Good News over our lives and world!

Prayers to Live By: St Augustine’s Prayer for Rest

Our Christian history and tradition is just full of gold: stories, people, traditions and prayers that have inspired and nurtured peoples’ faith and helped them on their walk with Jesus through life. Here is one such prayer….
This prayer is taken from St Augustine of Hippo’s book Confessions. Not our St Augustine, but the North African theologian of the 5th Century. He was a person who constantly sought after truth. This led him to unique insights into his own, as well as human character, and the culture and philosophy of his day, and Scripture and God. Much of Western theology and wider culture can find its heritage in St Augustine’s teachings.

This prayer is testament to his depth of understanding. A prayer so simple and short, yet so profound and rich, disciples have spent lifetimes reflecting on it. It encapsulates what it means to be human. We were made to rest!

This prayer reveals that one of the keys to discipleship, to a life lived to the full, is rest. I think this is a lesson we need to learn now more that ever. As some of us start working from home, the place we commonly find rest, it can become increasingly hard to find space for rest. And it can be hard to find rest as we are bombarded by news of Covid-19 and the lack of stability for the future. It does not take much before we feel restless and uneasy within ourselves. But, if we are courageous enough to look closer at ourselves, we might find there are deeper questions about who we are and what we ought to do that are the source of this restlessness.

According to this prayer we have these questions unanswered, and are restless and uneasy because we are disconnected from our original purpose; we were made for God. Made to take joy and delight in Him, as He takes joy and delight in us. Made to live for and with Him. This is true rest.

To rest in God we need to understand His opinion of us. To understand this I invite you to read Matthew 3:16-17 and you will find that we are God’s Children with whom He is well pleased. You might also want to read 1 Corinthians 13 and replace the word “love” with the word “God.” You might also want to mediate on the fact that God became human, dwelt with us, experienced all that we experience and then died for us, and offers us the gift of eternal life. You might also want to reflect on the fact that God knows you better than you know yourself, yet still wishes to make His home inside you through His Holy Spirit. In God there is perfect love, safety and acceptance.

So what practical steps can we take to live in and from His rest? At it’s most basic it is about doing those things which help us to build a deeper loving relationship with God, and making them routine!

It is important to remember we are all made unique and different, and there is no one sizes fits all for finding rest in God. You might already know the ways in which you connect with God, but if you are struggling here is a resource and questionnaire to help you find insight into the way God has made you.

We all need routine. Just like a married couple need to be intentional about spending time together, with daily catch ups and regular date nights, to keep the relationship healthy, we need to make spending quality time with God a priority in our days, weeks, months and years.

So next time you notice yourself feeling restless, say this prayer and be open to what God wants to reveal to you about how He has made you and how you might find rest in Him.
 

Prayers to Live By: The Prayer of Serenity

Prayers To Live By.
Our Christian history and tradition is just full of gold: stories, people, traditions and prayers that have inspired and nurtured peoples’ faith and helped them on their walk with Jesus through life. Here is one such prayer….
The Prayer of Serenity was written sometime during the early 20th Century. It is often attributed to theologian Reinhold Niebuhr and was taken up by the AA movement as their prayer.

Serenity means peace. Jesus promises to give us peace, even if he does not promise to stop all our troubles. The opposite of peace is stress. Stress comes from situations we feel we can’t change. Covid-19 is just such a situation. Personally we don’t have the power to change this Global crisis. We are not that powerful. However, stressing about such things, although a natural reaction, is not a personally helpful response. When we are faced with things we can not change this prayer invites peace. A peace that comes from knowing that one day all things will be well because of Jesus.

When we are stressed we might miss what we can do to make a difference. Therefore, this prayer invites God to reveal to us the ways we can influence change and the courage to actually do it. During this crisis the most powerful thing we can do to change things is to simply stay home! Does not seem heroic, but is actually incredibly powerful.

This prayer is not just for a crisis like this though, but is relevant to so much of our lives. How much do we stress everyday about things we have no control over or even connection to? And how often do we miss the opportunity to make a difference because we didn’t know our own power or did not have the courage? Therefore this prayer invites God’s wisdom into our lives. We need wisdom daily to discern what we can and can’t change. We need wisdom to reveal to us what we should and shouldn’t be focusing our thoughts and emotions on.

Overall, this is a great prayer for our own mental health. It helps us to truly discern how we should approach life.

Here is a full text of the prayer:

Lord, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change;
Courage to change the things I can;
And the wisdom to know the difference.

Living one day at a time,
Enjoying one moment at a time,
Accepting hardship as a pathway to peace,
Taking, as Jesus did,
This sinful world as it is,
Not as I would have it,
Trusting that You will make all things right,
If I surrender to Your will,
So that I may be reasonably happy in this life,
And supremely happy with You forever in the next.

Amen.